As sexual violence prevention week continues, we at the University of Oregon Men’s Center want to give a big shout out to all the dudes, guys, bros, pals and average Joes out there who identify as men. News flash! Sexual violence is not just an issue reserved for the focused efforts of concerned college women or the women’s and gender studies department — it’s an issue that concerns men, too.
As many of us know, men make up the majority of the offenders who commit sexual violence in our society. More than 95 percent of all sexual violence perpetrators are men. We point this out because we are in desperate need of working toward stopping these harmful incidents. We too often watch or read news about someone being abused or raped in this country, condemn it, but then shrug it off. What is the average man in particular doing to stop this behavior? Do most men actively challenge existing sexism in society? Not nearly enough it seems.
When the majority of these offenses are committed by men, should we not be encouraging all the good guys out there who believe that these acts are wrong to stand up and be counted in the movement to end sexual violence? The answer to this has been a deafening silence from men. So what’s wrong with this picture? It’s been more than 30 years since the women’s rights movement of the 1970s opened the door for women to stand up for themselves and their personal rights. Still, so many women and girls are continually getting assaulted and raped on college campuses every year. Women have clearly spoken up, so where are the men?
This is by no means an attempt to blame all men. The simple reality of the situation is that we men aren’t speaking up as much as we could be. Men need to play their part in making our community safe by speaking out against violence and assault against women. So, as we approach this prevention week, we guys should reflect on these issues and show our
support for the cause.
Let’s impress ourselves for once and stand up against what we know is wrong by doing things like encouraging involvement this week or participating in Take Back the Night.
Men, if you’re troubled by the disturbing amount of rape and sexual violence that is committed on college campuses every year, let your voices and beliefs be heard!
Challenge sexism when you come across it. Don’t remain silent. Have the strength and courage to stand up for what you believe in.
Question your own attitudes toward sexism. Be an ally to women who are doing hard work to prevent sexual violence. The only way we can change things is if all of us are together on this issue. Having only one half of the population actively involved in the movement against sexual violence is not enough. It’s time for men to stand up, too. If we do, our campus and our world will undoubtedly become a safer place that much faster. Lead by example, guys!
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